Jennifer Lopez Opens Up About Overcoming Self-Doubt: ‘I Refused to Let Criticism Define Me’

Jennifer Lopez is the epitome of a multi-talented star—singer, dancer, actress, and entrepreneur. However, beneath the confident persona that fans admire, Lopez recently opened up about the self-doubt and criticism that haunted her during the early stages of her career.

Speaking at a public event with Full Picture CEO Desiree Gruber, Lopez revealed, “You know, I’ve really become — and I think from being in this business — I don’t let the opinion of others really influence how I think about myself.” But this resilience didn’t come easily, she added, “That took a long time.”

Lopez, whose career took off with her breakout role in Selena and her debut album On the 6, shared that despite her early success, criticism about her talents left her questioning her abilities. “I’m killing it,” Lopez recalled. “And then everybody’s like, ‘She can’t sing, she can’t dance, she can’t act, she’s just some pretty face or her butt is big,’ or whatever they were saying about me, and I started thinking, ‘Yeah, that’s true.’”

These harsh comments deeply affected her self-esteem, leaving her grappling with imposter syndrome. However, despite feeling discouraged, Lopez refused to give in. “I just kept going,” she said. “I just couldn’t allow myself to let that become who I was.”

Determined to define her own narrative, Lopez adopted a relentless work ethic and began believing in her own capabilities. “I’m a great actress, I’m a great singer, I’m a great dancer,” she said. “And I’m gonna keep going! And I did. And that’s all I did. I just kept going. And I just started working harder and harder than everybody else.”

For Lopez, her turning point came when she started to trust in her own talents, rejecting the idea that she was a fraud. “I started believing in myself. I started believing in the fact that I wasn’t an imposter, that I wasn’t a fake.”

This journey of self-empowerment is a theme reflected in her films. Lopez likened her experiences to those of Maya, a character she portrayed in Second Act. “It’s just like the movie,” she explained. “Maya is thinking this is a mistake she made when she was young, that she didn’t deserve any better for her life.”

Growing up in the Bronx, Lopez once believed her future would be modest. “Citibank was like down the block from my house, and I thought, maybe I’ll work at the bank and it’ll be close to my house,” Lopez shared, recalling moments of doubt while in school. “New York is so symbolic for me. I always felt like this little girl, with her nose pressed up against the glass looking at the Emerald City and all the stuff that was out there, but the Bronx seems so small. Like that was gonna be my whole life.”

However, Lopez managed to break out of her Bronx roots and collaborate with some of Hollywood’s biggest names. She attributes her success to ignoring the negative voices—both external and internal. “I think, for me, the most important thing is not listening to all the outside voices, but making sure that the voice I’m speaking to myself is a kind roommate, is a good roommate, is someone that’s lifting me up.”

Lopez’s journey from a self-doubting artist to an entertainment icon serves as a testament to resilience and self-belief. By refusing to let criticism define her, she has built an empire on her terms, embodying the power of perseverance.